1. allow a residence time of (default) 2 days before actually deleting a msg.
2. reduce the number R: lines on a bull from a bbs to 2 (the origin and the
last port of call).
+3. ignore deleted messages for queuing purposes
03Oct01=======================================================================
1. don't allow @WWW to become a 'TO' field...
2. handle @gb7tlh.#35.eu type addresses as well
$ref->del_msg;
next;
}
+ next if $ref->{delete};
# firstly, is it private and unread? if so can I find the recipient
# in my cluster node list offsite?